Hotwife Lifestyle Starters Guide: From Reaction to Action. Step 0. Part 1
How do you go from the initial reaction to this lifestyle to actually partaking?Damned if I know. Kidding, I think I can kinda help here but my advice comes with a caveat, you won’t like it and it takes time, trust and a lot of self awareness.Typically I...
Hotwife FAQ
You have questions...I have answers! I get a lot of messages and a lot of questions, Here’s the most common and frequently asked. We came to hotwifing via swinging…well we weren’t actually swinging but we were talking about it as something that might be fun to try…one...
The best wife centric subreddits to check out
r/HotWifeLifestyle Everything Hotwife!! /r/hotwiferequests Post location and what you're looking for /r/dirtykikpals Find men, women and couples to sext with /r/dirtyr4r Find fellow kinky redditors to meet IRL /r/BDSMpersonals If you're looking for a D/s twist to your...
The Dirty Dozen Questionnaire
Here's a quick questionnaire for my fellow hotwives. It's all in good fun so don't fuss over having a perfect answer, just be honest. It's anonymous and mostly to indulge my own curiosities about what you ladies are up to behind closed doors....
Hotwife Advice: 12 things single guys should never do
Want to know what not to do? Good! Here’s my list of the 12 easiest ways to piss off, scare off and plain old turn off a hotwife, well at least this hotwife right here. I know that’s very broad and I know that I’m being very snarky in this list but I can also say that...
Hotwife Terminology
Generally speaking, I'm not one for labels (or set standards) when it comes to fantasy and kink. In the case of the hotwife lifestyle and enjoying a non monogamous lifestyle there's so many labels, acronyms, etc that I thought it might be helpful to put together a...
Hotwife Guide: Asking for photos & videos
At some point during the lead up to a hotwife date the time will come whenthe topic of getting pictures and videos rears its head.So let’s just embrace the awkward and jump right in. Asking to record yourself and a stranger fucking can be strange. In truth it can be...
The hotwife guide to finding partners
In an effort to offer some practical advice I thought I’d try my hand at compiling some info that might come in handy when you’re brand new to this fantasy. When you first start figuring out how to make this fantasy a reality a (very) large part of the equation is who...
Questions for couples to ask each other
Here are some of the questions that we have asked of each other when we started out, to this day (almost 2 years later) we like to revisit them as a way to check in and see where we’re each at. Obviously you shouldn’t answer these here but I thought it...
12 things that have surprised us along the way
We’ve recently been talking a lot about this kink and kind of taking stock of how it’s working and how we want to move forward and we’ve come to realize there are a lot of things that have surprised us along the way, for better or worse, and we wanted to...
Advice that’s a little strange and a lot practical
A little advice for those starting out. If you’re like me and you meet guys one on one (usually their place or a hotel) you should be aware that it’s quite the adrenaline rush, at least for me it is. So with that in mind here’s a few things to keep in...
Intention & Compromise
In the year and half that we’ve been doing this we’ve encountered countless problems, issues and grievances, especially early on. It’s taken us a year and a half to get to the space we’re in now where things are consistently going really well and...
Single Guys: How do I get started? Here’s My Advice
How do I get started?No guarantees. This is all based on my personal experiences and opinions as well as getting to know other hotwife couples. I’m asked on an almost daily basis for advice on getting started exploring the hotwife kink so I feel that...
Husbands Guide To Encouraging Your Wife
If you're soooo close to making this fantasy happen for you here's a few ideas that worked for me and made me feel more comfortable exploring this fantasy with my husband. In our case it was all in the details, the little things my husband did or said that...
Bulls Guide To Sending Her Home Happy
Let's jump right into it. you found a hotwife, she wants to meet you, you want to make a good impression...here's a few things that might help.Early On: Check in. After the fact. check in. Unless things went terribly bad and you've agreed to forget it ever...
