Hotwife Lifestyle Advice

Hotwife FAQ

Hotwife FAQ

You have questions...I have answers! I get a lot of messages and a lot of questions, Here’s the most common and frequently asked. We came to hotwifing via swinging…well we weren’t actually swinging but we were talking about it as something that might be fun to try…one...

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Hotwife Terminology

Hotwife Terminology

Generally speaking, I'm not one for labels (or set standards) when it comes to fantasy and kink. In the case of the hotwife lifestyle and enjoying a non monogamous lifestyle there's so many labels, acronyms, etc that I thought it might be helpful to put together a...

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Questions for couples to ask each other

Questions for couples to ask each other

Here are some of the questions that we have asked of each other when we started out, to this day (almost 2 years later) we like to revisit them as a way to check in and see where we’re each at. Obviously you shouldn’t answer these here but I thought it...

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12 things that have surprised us along the way

12 things that have surprised us along the way

We’ve recently been talking a lot about this kink and kind of taking stock of how it’s working and how we want to move forward and we’ve come to realize there are a lot of things that have surprised us along the way, for better or worse, and we wanted to...

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Intention & Compromise

Intention & Compromise

In the year and half that we’ve been doing this we’ve encountered countless problems, issues and grievances, especially early on. It’s taken us a year and a half to get to the space we’re in now where things are consistently going really well and...

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Husbands Guide To Encouraging Your Wife

Husbands Guide To Encouraging Your Wife

If you're soooo close to making this fantasy happen for you here's a few ideas that worked for me and made me feel more comfortable exploring this fantasy with my husband. In our case it was all in the details, the little things my husband did or said that...

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Bulls Guide To Sending Her Home Happy

Bulls Guide To Sending Her Home Happy

Let's jump right into it. you found a hotwife, she wants to meet you, you want to make a good impression...here's a few things that might help.Early On: Check in. After the fact. check in. Unless things went terribly bad and you've agreed to forget it ever...

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